Introduction
Fear is something that many people have and it is a very common thing. There is nothing to be ashamed of, or worry about it as to why one has fear. Fear is very natural, if a man doesn’t have fear then he is not a human being. Now, there are many people who have this common query like, how to overcome fear of failure? Now, it mainly depends on what kind of work or task that you or one has fear of failure. Sometimes it can be like a student has fear of failure in the exam, then fear of not getting employment or fear of not doing well in life and so on the gaga will continue.
Don’t Live in Fear
One of the biggest and the most important thing which you should know about fear of failure is that, it makes no point in fearing failure, because failure or success, is not in the hands of human beings. It is in the hands of God. Besides all of that, it also mainly depends on our trying. If we don’t try, then we do not succeed. For instance, you have plans to get up in the morning and go for a walk. But you are not able to get up, and are sleeping. It is because you have not tried to get up by putting an alarm and you have not worked on it.
Trying is Important
So, it is also important that you try your level best to succeed in whichever field you are trying to work on. But, in case if you don’t succeed, then you don’t have to blame yourself for that, because, as it has been said, success and failure is not in our hands, its in the hands of God. Therefore, its no point in blaming yourself. At least you have tried to work hard and succeed, but failed is better than having not tried at all. Something is better than nothing. So, you should teach your child also the same thing.
Don’t Criticize
Besides all of that, you don’t have to criticize your child, in case if they fail. All you need to explain to them is that there are certain things which are not in our hands and all we can do is try better the next time. If you failed a competition or a prize, for which there will no competition or that event will not be held again in future or lifetime, then also, you don’t need criticize your child, all you should do tell them that there are things that do not work always the way we want it and, certain things are in the hands of God, and we should be strong and stay positive.
